Periagoge
Scenario

Why forgiveness feels like betraying yourself

Everyone says forgiveness is the key to freedom but when I think about forgiving my abuser I feel like I'm betraying the part of me that was hurt.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Premature forgiveness can re-traumatize by dismissing legitimate protective anger.

Your guide for this
Rumi
Rumi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Nirvana and liberation?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.