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When Spiritual Practices Expected by Your Community Don't Come Naturally to You

I've been going to my girlfriend's Pentecostal church for months and I've never spoken in tongues and everyone keeps saying I just need to surrender more but I don't know what I'm supposed to surrender to.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Authentic spiritual experience cannot be forced by well-meaning pressure from those whose paths have unfolded differently.

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