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How to Stop Self-Hatred When Spiritual Ideals Feel Impossible

I've been practicing surrender for months but I still try to control everything and it makes me hate myself.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The gap between spiritual aspiration and human limitation is generating harsh self-judgment.

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