My dad is dying and I want to be present with him but I also keep thinking about all the ways he hurt our family and I can't tell if acceptance means forgiving or just pretending it didn't happen.
More people experience this than they realize.
True acceptance must include the full reality of both love and harm without spiritual bypassing of either.
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