Periagoge
Scenario

When family conflict makes Buddhist compassion feel impossible

My ex-wife and I are in a bitter custody battle and I can't access any compassion for her even though I know I should and I hate how unspiritual that makes me feel.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The heart's protective mechanisms serve survival even when they contradict our highest aspirations, requiring patience with our own very human limitations.

Your guide for this
Rumi
Rumi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Buddhism — complete guide?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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