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How spiritual non-attachment can become emotional avoidance

My girlfriend left me because she said I use non-attachment as an excuse to never commit and honestly I think she might be right.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Tantric teachings about letting go are being unconsciously used to justify fear of intimate vulnerability and genuine human connection.

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“Where Are You with Buddhist tantra and Vajrayana?”

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