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Scenario

How spiritual non-attachment can become emotional avoidance

My girlfriend left me because she said I use non-attachment as an excuse to never commit and honestly I think she might be right.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Tantric teachings about letting go are being unconsciously used to justify fear of intimate vulnerability and genuine human connection.

Your guide for this
Rumi
Rumi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Buddhist tantra and Vajrayana?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.