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When marriage requires religious conversion

My Jewish girlfriend wants me to convert before we marry but I feel like I'd be wearing someone else's soul and I don't know if love should require becoming someone else.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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The self faces the question of whether love demands transformation or acceptance, wondering where compromise becomes self-betrayal.

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