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Scenario

When marriage requires religious conversion

My Jewish girlfriend wants me to convert before we marry but I feel like I'd be wearing someone else's soul and I don't know if love should require becoming someone else.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The self faces the question of whether love demands transformation or acceptance, wondering where compromise becomes self-betrayal.

Your guide for this
Rumi
Rumi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Religion and sexuality?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.