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When contemplative practice affects your marriage

My spouse thinks I'm becoming too withdrawn since I started doing daily silent prayer, and I don't know how to explain that the silence is making me more present, not less.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Authentic spiritual transformation often appears as withdrawal to those who equate presence with constant engagement, challenging intimate relationships.

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