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Scenario

When contemplative practice affects your marriage

My spouse thinks I'm becoming too withdrawn since I started doing daily silent prayer, and I don't know how to explain that the silence is making me more present, not less.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Authentic spiritual transformation often appears as withdrawal to those who equate presence with constant engagement, challenging intimate relationships.

Your guide for this
Rumi
Rumi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Christian mysticism — the contemplative tradition?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.