Periagoge
Scenario

When tantric partnerships ignore personal consent and attraction

My teacher paired me with someone for sexual tantra practice and I don't feel attracted to them but saying no feels like spiritual failure.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Spiritual authority is being used to override natural sexual autonomy, creating pressure to engage intimately without authentic desire.

Your guide for this
Rumi
Rumi works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Buddhist tantra and Vajrayana?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.