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When spiritual guidance and romantic feelings intersect

The meditation teacher I've studied with for years just asked me on a date and I can't tell if I'm attracted to him or to his spiritual authority.

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Power dynamics in spiritual relationship blur the distinction between transcendent connection and personal desire.

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