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Scenario

When couples disagree about supporting adult children while planning retirement

My adult children keep asking us for financial help with down payments and emergencies, and my spouse and I disagree about how much we can afford to give without jeopardizing our own retirement, but we've never actually calculated what we can sustainably offer. We just keep making decisions case by case and worrying we're being either too generous or too stingy.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are making financial decisions about family support without a shared framework for what they can actually afford.

Your guide for this
Zera
Zera works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Money in your 50s and 60s — the pre-retirement decade?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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