My adult children want to help us with our mortgage debt but accepting their money feels like admitting we failed as parents, while refusing it seems stubborn and prideful when we're genuinely struggling. We're all dancing around this offer and none of us knows how to talk about what it would mean for our relationships going forward.
More people experience this than they realize.
A family cannot navigate the complex emotional territory of financial help between generations without confronting questions of dependence, success, and changing roles.
“Where Are You with Debt — understanding managing escaping?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.