My ex makes significantly more money than I do and we're fighting about alimony, but the real issue is that we both feel like the other person didn't contribute equally to the marriage and we can't separate the financial negotiation from that resentment.
More people experience this than they realize.
Financial settlements force explicit accounting of implicit exchanges that were never meant to be quantified.
“Where Are You with Money and divorce?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.