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Scenario

How families navigate financial boundaries when love and enabling overlap

My mother keeps giving money to my financially irresponsible sister while refusing help for her own mounting medical bills, and our whole family is stuck because mom sees money as an expression of unconditional love while the rest of us see it as enabling destructive behavior. We can't help mom until we understand what generosity means versus what responsibility means.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Family members must distinguish between money that expresses care and money that perpetuates harm.

Your guide for this
Zera
Zera works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The meaning of money — what it ultimately is?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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