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When couples clash over wedding spending despite having adequate funds

My partner and I are planning our wedding and we can afford the wedding we want, but we're having this deeper argument about whether spending that much money on one day is right when we could use it for other things, and it's revealing different values we didn't know we had.

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A couple discovers conflicting values about appropriate celebration spending when affordability isn't the constraint.

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