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When couples fight more about money after getting raises

My partner and I both got significant raises this year but we're fighting more about money than when we were broke and I think it's because we never talked about what we actually want from having more and we're just spending in opposite directions.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Increased resources without shared intentionality can create more conflict than scarcity ever did.

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