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When couples have different financial coping mechanisms for mental health

My partner and I both struggle with anxiety and depression and we've been spending money in completely different ways to cope - I'm hoarding every dollar while they're stress-shopping online - and we can't talk about it without one of us shutting down completely.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Two people are using opposing financial behaviors to manage psychological distress, creating a collision between individual coping needs and shared financial reality.

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“Where Are You with Money and mental health?”

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