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Scenario

When couples struggle with saving versus spending timing for major life events

My partner and I have been saving for our wedding but every vendor conversation turns into a fight about whether to book the cheaper option now or wait and save more for something better and we're both tired of every romantic decision becoming a delayed gratification test.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are learning that shared dreams can become sources of stress when every choice requires coordinating their different tolerance for waiting and risk.

Your guide for this
Zera
Zera works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Saving and the psychology of deferred gratification?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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