Periagoge
Scenario

When couples have different cultural approaches to money and family obligations

My partner comes from a Lakota family where wealth is meant to circulate through giveaways and community support, while I was raised with Western savings and investment mindsets, and we can't agree on how much of our income should go to his extended family versus our retirement accounts.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two worldviews about wealth's purpose are colliding in intimate partnership, requiring navigation between individual security and collective responsibility.

Your guide for this
Zera
Zera works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Indigenous approaches to wealth and sharing?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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