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Scenario

When siblings have different financial boundaries with struggling parents

My sister and I both help support our mom financially but we approach it completely differently - she gives whatever mom asks for and I try to set boundaries, and now we're fighting about enabling versus caring. We're both stressed about money but dealing with it in opposite ways.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Competing philosophies of financial care are fracturing family unity while neither approach resolves the underlying scarcity.

Your guide for this
Zera
Zera works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Financial anxiety and scarcity mindset?”

Peri

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