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Scenario

When parents disagree about financial support for adult children

My spouse and I disagree about how much to help our adult children financially - I think we've done enough and they need to be independent, but they think we should help more since we can afford it, and our kids are getting mixed messages.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Spouses must align on appropriate financial boundaries with adult children when resources allow but values differ.

Your guide for this
Zera
Zera works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with How much is enough — the sufficiency question?”

Peri

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