My spouse and I filed for bankruptcy last year and we're still fighting about whose spending habits got us there, and I'm starting to think we can't rebuild our financial life until we figure out how to have shared responsibility without shared blame.
More people experience this than they realize.
Post-bankruptcy recovery requires distinguishing between accountability for past decisions and collaborative responsibility for future choices.
“Where Are You with Bankruptcy — the philosophy and the process?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.