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When spouses discover hidden investment decisions

My spouse and I have been investing separately with our own accounts but I just discovered they've been making some really aggressive trades with money I thought we agreed was for our kids' college and I don't know how to bring this up without seeming controlling.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Trust has been broken around shared financial goals, but the betrayed party must navigate between legitimate concern and respect for their partner's autonomy.

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