My three siblings and I found out our grandmother had been buying lottery tickets for decades and left us $500,000 in winnings we never knew about and now we're all projecting different meanings onto what she 'would have wanted' us to do with it.
More people experience this than they realize.
Windfall money from the deceased becomes a screen for projecting unresolved feelings about the person's values and the survivors' own worthiness.
“Where Are You with The psychology of lottery and windfall?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.