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When aid worker couples face conflicts between family and mission

My wife and I are both aid workers who met overseas, and we're struggling with whether to raise our kids in the US where they'll have more opportunities or continue working abroad where we feel like we're making a difference. We haven't been able to talk honestly about how much we each resent the choice between being good parents and doing meaningful work, and we're starting to blame each other for the impossible position we're in.

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Partners are confronting how their shared commitment to global justice creates impossible choices about their children's wellbeing and their own sense of purpose.

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