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When couples struggle with lifestyle changes after financial success

My wife and I both got significant raises this year but we're fighting about lifestyle inflation because she wants to enjoy our success while I want to maintain our frugal habits, and we're discovering we have fundamentally different relationships with abundance. Neither of us knows what enough means or whether money should change how we live.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Partners must explore whether increased wealth should transform daily life or whether contentment exists independent of spending power.

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