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Scenario

When couples disagree about financial transparency with adult children regarding inheritance

My wife and I disagree about whether to tell our adult children how much money they'll inherit because I think it will make them lazy and she thinks they deserve to know so they can plan their lives, and this disagreement is really about whether we trust the people we raised. The amount is enough to change their life trajectories completely.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The question of disclosure becomes a test of faith in your own parenting and the character of the people you raised.

Your guide for this
Zera
Zera works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Financial legacy — what you leave behind?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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