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Scenario

When couples disagree about what financial security actually means

My wife and I have been fighting about whether to pay off our mortgage early or invest that money, but what we're really fighting about is whether money should buy us security or freedom and we can't admit that we each think the other one's relationship with money is fundamentally wrong. Every financial conversation becomes a referendum on our deepest values.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people must discover whether their different relationships with money reflect incompatible philosophies of what makes life meaningful.

Your guide for this
Zera
Zera works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The meaning of money — what it ultimately is?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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