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When couples disagree on religious versus secular charitable giving

My wife and I want to give more to charity but she wants to support her church's mission work and I want to give to secular organizations that align with my values, and we can't figure out how to honor both our beliefs without splitting our giving budget in ways that feel inadequate to both causes we care about.

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Two people are discovering that their deepest values about faith, society, and moral action cannot be easily reconciled through compromise.

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