I donated anonymously to my friend's medical fundraiser but she found out and now she's angry I was 'watching her beg' when I could have helped all along.
More people experience this than they realize.
The attempt to preserve dignity in wealth-mediated help can paradoxically create more shame and resentment.
“Where Are You with Inherited wealth and its complications?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.