Periagoge
Scenario

When anonymous giving backfires in personal relationships

I donated anonymously to my friend's medical fundraiser but she found out and now she's angry I was 'watching her beg' when I could have helped all along.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The attempt to preserve dignity in wealth-mediated help can paradoxically create more shame and resentment.

Your guide for this
Zera
Zera works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Inherited wealth and its complications?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.