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How anti-materialist values create hidden resentment

I have never bought anything expensive for myself because I was taught that wanting nice things makes you shallow, but I resent everyone who has what I deny myself.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Moral superiority about money masks unexpressed desires, creating internal conflict between values and authentic wants.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The meaning of money — what it ultimately is?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.