I just realized I've been saving money for fifteen years for 'someday' but I have no actual plan for what someday looks like and I'm starting to wonder if I'm just afraid to live now.
More people experience this than they realize.
Deferred gratification without clear purpose can become a defense mechanism against the vulnerability of wanting specific things.
“Where Are You with Saving and the psychology of deferred gratification?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.