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Scenario

When financial fairness becomes relationship surveillance

I keep exact track of who pays for what with my romantic partner, and I think it's killing the romance, but I can't stop keeping score.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The desire for equity can transform intimate relationships into transactional exchanges that undermine emotional connection.

Your guide for this
Zera
Zera works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The meaning of money — what it ultimately is?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.