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Scenario

Why being generous can become self-destructive

I keep lending money to friends who never pay me back and I am angry but I also feel like asking for it back makes me a bad person

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The desire to be seen as generous conflicts with legitimate self-protection, creating a cycle that breeds resentment

Your guide for this
Zera
Zera works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Money and power — who controls resource flows?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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