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Scenario

How practical relationship concerns conflict with romantic ideals

I love my boyfriend but I cannot stop calculating whether he makes enough money to be marriage material, which makes me feel like a terrible person.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The collision between pragmatic needs and idealized love creates shame about legitimate concerns for partnership sustainability.

Your guide for this
Zera
Zera works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The meaning of money — what it ultimately is?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.