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Why some people need to always pay to feel worthy

I realize I only feel valuable when I am paying for everyone else's meals and drinks, and I panic when friends suggest splitting the check.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Self-worth has been outsourced to financial generosity, creating a transaction where love must be purchased.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The meaning of money — what it ultimately is?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.