I spend more on my dog's healthcare than my own and I know how crazy that sounds but I cannot bear the thought of him suffering when I could prevent it.
More people experience this than they realize.
The displacement of care onto dependents can reveal both deep compassion and avoidance of attending to personal needs.
“Where Are You with Money in your 30s and 40s — peak earning and spending?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.