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When equality becomes inequity in relationships

I split everything equally with my boyfriend but he earns three times what I do so these 'equal' payments are destroying my budget

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Mathematical fairness ignores proportional impact, creating a system that appears just while producing unjust outcomes

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Money and power — who controls resource flows?”

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