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Why saying 'we can't afford it' when you mean 'no' confuses children about money

My 6-year-old wants everything she sees and I keep saying 'we can't afford it' but I actually just don't want to buy it.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're using money as an excuse to avoid teaching actual values and decision-making.

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“Where Are You with Money and children — raising financially literate kids?”

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