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Scenario

Why social invitations can feel like performance tests

My boss invited me to his country club and I spent the entire weekend watching YouTube videos about golf etiquette because I was terrified of doing something that would reveal I don't belong there.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Professional opportunities become anxiety-provoking auditions for class belonging rather than genuine social connection.

Your guide for this
Zera
Zera works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Money and identity — class aspiration and shame?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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