My boss invited me to his country club and I spent the entire weekend watching YouTube videos about golf etiquette because I was terrified of doing something that would reveal I don't belong there.
More people experience this than they realize.
Professional opportunities become anxiety-provoking auditions for class belonging rather than genuine social connection.
“Where Are You with Money and identity — class aspiration and shame?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.