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When feedback contradicts lived experience

My boss keeps promoting men who've been here half as long as me and when I brought it up she said I need to 'speak up more' but I'm literally the most vocal person in meetings.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Being told to change behaviors you already exhibit reveals how perception can be distorted by bias.

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