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When spouses disagree about charitable priorities

My husband thinks our tithing should go to our church but I want to give to the homeless shelter downtown and we can't afford to do both and it's causing fights about what God actually wants from us.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Shared resources force couples to negotiate not just practical decisions but fundamental questions about moral responsibility.

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