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When providing for your children challenges your values

My kid goes to private school now and I feel like a hypocrite because I used to judge rich parents for buying their children advantages.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Parental love conflicts with ideological consistency when resource access requires participating in systems you previously criticized.

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“Where Are You with Money and identity — class aspiration and shame?”

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