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Scenario

How to Handle Unwanted Financial Help

My mother-in-law keeps giving us money we did not ask for and it makes me feel grateful and resentful in equal measure.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Receiving unasked-for assistance can complicate adult autonomy and create obligation dynamics that strain relationships.

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Zera
Zera works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

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Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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