Periagoge
Scenario

When small boundary violations erode community relationships

My neighbor keeps borrowing tools and household items but never returns them and when I ask she acts like I am being petty and un-neighborly.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Someone is systematically taking advantage of your generosity while making you feel guilty for noticing or objecting.

Your guide for this
Zera
Zera works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with African ubuntu economy and communal wealth?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.