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How accepting family money after disaster threatens adult identity

My parents keep offering to pay for everything since the fire but taking their money feels like becoming a child again and I am forty-three years old.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Financial dependence on parents reactivates childhood power dynamics that conflict with established adult selfhood.

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“Where Are You with Financial recovery after disaster?”

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