My parents refuse to discuss their finances with me but keep dropping hints about money problems, and I don't know if they want help or just want to complain.
More people experience this than they realize.
The communication around financial need becomes a complex dance of hints and guesses when direct conversation feels too threatening to dignity or independence.
“Where Are You with Money and aging parents — the financial caregiving challenge?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.