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Scenario

When financial independence conflicts with relationship progression

My partner and I agreed to keep our finances separate but now she wants to buy a house together and I am terrified of mixing our money

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The safety of financial autonomy opposes the vulnerability required for deeper partnership commitment

Your guide for this
Zera
Zera works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Money and power — who controls resource flows?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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