My siblings expect me to handle all of Dad's finances because I'm the only one who's 'good with money,' but they also criticize every decision I make about his care spending.
More people experience this than they realize.
The weight of sole responsibility becomes unbearable when authority comes without support but criticism arrives freely.
“Where Are You with Money and aging parents — the financial caregiving challenge?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.