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How to set boundaries without abandoning ubuntu principles

My uncle keeps asking me for loans that he never repays but if I stop helping him the whole family will say I have forgotten where I come from.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You are trapped between enabling destructive behavior and facing social exile for refusing to give endlessly.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with African ubuntu economy and communal wealth?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.